Women like to rush and start planning their dream wedding long before they have found their prince charming. It’s a little different for men, who only start thinking about fixing themselves after finding their one and only. So how do you know if they’re ready to get married or at least move in together? There are signs that he is totally in love with you and cannot think of anyone else next to him. Men are not very good at talking about their emotions, but what they know how to do is act accordingly. Here are 12 signs that your lover wants to be with you for the rest of his life.
He plans his life around you.
He doesn’t turn down distant jobs just because a woman is a good cook. If he decides to stay as close to you as possible, it’s a sure sign that he wants you to be a part of his life for sure. If you haven’t moved in together yet, he may have already started talking about it. The more serious he is with you, the better!
He speaks more of “we” than of “I”.
When a man often talks about what you do together as a couple, it’s a sure sign that he sees you spending a lot of time together. In fact, he apparently plans to spend the rest of his life with you! This means that he sees you both as one entity and his single time is far behind. This is one of the best signs!
He’s not afraid to spend time at home
It’s great when you can have fun with your boyfriend, but what really matters is when you can both become servants at home while having a good time. You may not be living together yet, but you already have your stuff stashed away in his apartment and enjoy each other’s company while shopping, preparing meals, and watching movies.
He’s with you even when things aren’t going too well
If your man is not afraid to be there when you hit rock bottom, it is a sure sign that he cherishes you more than anything. It’s easy to be together when things are going well, but you need to be very careful and dedicate yourself to getting through the tough times. This means that you can overcome all problems together, and that’s more than can be asked for.
You buy something together
Whether it’s a dog, a gadget, or a new home, buying things together and sharing responsibilities means you’re in a long-term relationship. First, you raise a dog together, and then, who knows, maybe you will also have children?
You are part of his family.
If you’ve reached the relationship stage where you’re supposed to attend his family gatherings, you’re doing something right. We often miss that moment when we are part of the family, when we overcome the embarrassment of meeting his mother and father for special occasions. Now you probably meet them just for fun together, just like you do with your own family!
You share hobbies
Some say opposites attract, but in the long run, it’s better for both to share at least a few hobbies. It’s so much fun when you can watch movies, go to yoga, do photography, and maybe even work together on a creative project! Common interests bring people even closer together, so if it’s in the things you love, you’ll settle down very well together!
He strives to be part of your family
You may have befriended his loved ones, but it doesn’t mean anything if he doesn’t do the same with your parents and siblings. If your boyfriend keeps in touch with your family and likes to talk with your dad about a sporting event, it’s a sure sign that he loves you and wants to be a part of your life for a long time.
He likes to surprise you
Whether it’s been six months or a few years, he always tries to surprise you and make you smile. Routine can be devastating for relationships, so it’s important to keep things fresh and never forget the intimacy and romance that brought you together in the first place. That’s why he strives to plan exciting dates and breathtaking getaways for both of you!
He talks about children
A man only talks about having children if he is 100% sure he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Otherwise, he would not be comfortable broaching this subject! Whether he’s joking or spending a whole date talking about what it’s like to move in together and start a family, conversations like these bring you closer to the relationships every woman dreams of.
You live together
It’s always good to live together for a while before you get married or realize that you can’t live without each other. If you’ve already entered this phase of your relationship, congratulations! This means you’ve taken the extra step to spend your whole life together (or at least whether it’s your cup of tea or not). If he had the idea to move in together, it’s a sure sign that he thinks you’re his only person!
He wants you to be happy
As vague as it may seem, thinking about another person’s happiness is one of the most vivid manifestations of love and affection. If he likes to talk about your well-being and long-term life goals, you can be sure that he plans to spend as much time with you as possible. Men do not take these things lightly!